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It’s fascinating how some of the defining characteristics of a specific kind of abusive man are also some of the defining characteristics of Nice Guys™.
Credit to Lundy Bancroft’s Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.

It’s fascinating how some of the defining characteristics of a specific kind of abusive man are also some of the defining characteristics of Nice Guys™.

Credit to Lundy Bancroft’s Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.

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    Holy fuck. Another way of describing my ex’s abuse towards me. He even resorted to using spirituality as a form of abuse...
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